Quote Originally Posted by Fred View Post
That's a fantastically logical response, yet his point is that emotions are involved, which precludes your logic.
one can be wise and understand an emotion, and yet make a reasonable choice that doesn't put 3 lives in significant danger of being ruined. its called being an adult. crisis response is a poor place to make decisions from. emotionally mature humans know this.

interestingly, we are coming to point where i'm going to have to start telling my family that i am poly and in serious dating relationships with two women. i dont think consciously this will be an issue, my parents and brother and sister in law are all good people, but i can't help worrying that subconsciously they will treat kassy differently after we tell them we also date other people. ie, basically not take our relationship as seriously as they currently do.