no, relationships are based on consent. not rules.
not sure how you come to the conclusion that poly can't have commitment either.
i like that i tried to be polite about judging your relationship but you get to decree that mine is not meaningful or legitimate. yikes. i really don't want to unpack that shit show of a statement. i really would prefer to not judge you or your relationship harshly, but yikes. making it pretty tough to do. *to the larger group* and you wonder why poly people don't step forward to be studied scientifically ....
i also explicitly talked about children for at least 4 posts.